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Beth McGale's avatar

Hello Lucy, as I sat and read your post this morning and especially about Nigel and what the doctor told you. I had to write and tell you that I just went through what you and Nigel are going through. Went to the doctor for something else and she dropped the same bombshell, and of course couldn't tell me anything about it, only that it can be managed. I waited four months to get into the Cross Cancer Institute for my appointment. It was hard walking in those doors again because I had breast cancer 18 years ago and it was a very aggressive type as well.... but I am still here.

When the doctor walked into the room I thought here we go again but all she said at first was that she was sorry i had to wait four months to finally get to see her. I just said, do I have leukaemia and she said no!!! What they were looking at is called CLL, which is Chronic Lymphoma Leukaemia, key word here is chronic, it can be treated with pills if needed. But what I have what is called, MBL, Monoclonal B Cell Lymhocytosis. Sounds awful but it's just something to do with the white blood count. But it can turn into the CLL, so they have to watch it and by watching it I mean, a blood test every six months. Oh and there is only a 1 to 3% chance per year, as you age that it could turn into this chronic leukaemia. I will take this odds.

I hope this helps because I know first hand the torture that your both going through your mind right now. If what your husband has was a serious leukaemia they would have got him into a specialist right now. That's a good sign that they didn't!!! I am not a doctor, I can only tell you what just happened to me and I wish just some information in all those months I waited. Your mind can really take over with the worst scenarios. I would repeat in my mind, "thank you for showing me this issue has been resolved". That's how I got through breast cancer 18 years ago and this latest scare. Just think the issue is fixed.

I hope this helps, even a little bit.

Beth McGale

Alberta, Canada

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Linda Carlson's avatar

I'm so sorry, Lucy and Nigel. I truly wish that the Universe would quit dumping on you. Is there any recourse or assistance available from Nige's military service? Could the leukemia be traced back to something he was exposed to in Afghanistan? In the US, the Veterans Administration assists and compensates for those exposed, from Agent Orange in Vietnam to the toxic fire pits in Afghanistan. I wish you many blessings to come. Wish I could reach across the pond to give you a big hug.

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